Infatuation is not Love

 

Infatuation boils/rushes to disgrace without purpose, but it is not real love. 

God is Love.

A woman should wait for the man to approach (approaching first is a reproach or like jezebel), and also make their intentions clear, then the woman would prayerfully consider to answer with firmness.

Never be distracted. If you are, fast and pray into alignment and Grace.

Be humble because the world does not revolve around you, but around Jesus.

Manage a time of betrayal and vulnerability by relying completely on God.

3 parts of most temptations:
1. The lust of the flesh - from brokenness/abuse/abandonment/loss/hunger/desire/need

2. The lust of the eyes - by looking/sight/admiration

3. The pride of life - because it looks like success or promotion
Most worldly Guys send mixed signals that are distracting. A person that loves you does not confuse you but shows clarity- they will not engage a woman for years.
One apologized to their target after many years for being an unneeded nuisance. They have no good plans except use and sex - part of steal, kill, and destroy. Just see the pure wickedness from the enemy in disguise
Ladies just need to have standards or raise them. Focus and get busy with building yourself in God.

Note: If a guy in sincere and just shy, but has shown kindness/concern towards you, a lady can start a conversion that can help the guy build some confidence to express his real intentions, especially in certain cultures/situations. Pray for discernment to know the difference between a deceiver and a shy/discouraged person. They still have to do the asking eventually. It's not a female job. We need to be focused and guard our minds and heart.